定睛

dìng jīng guān chá

定睛观察

look fixedly and scrutinize

tā dìng jīng yī kàn yuán lái zhēn shì tā nán péng you

她定睛一看，原来真是她男朋友。

A fixed look assured her that it was her boyfriend.

dìng jīng zài nà xiē bāng zhù wǒ de rén shēn shang ér bù shì lán zǔ wǒ de rén

定睛在那些帮助我的人身上，而不是拦阻我的人。

Focus on people who help me, not hinder me.