由得

xīn kǔ zhǒng chū lái de liáng shi yóu de nǐ zuò jian zāo tà ma

辛苦种出来的粮食，由得你作践糟蹋吗！

How could you be allowed to waste the grain produced by toil and sweat?

xiàn zài bù yóu de nǐ zhè yàng shuō

现在不由得你这样说。

You're not allowed to speak that way.

tā bù yóu de fā chū yī shēng shēn yín

她不由得发出一声呻吟。

A groan escaped her lips.